Why am I writing this
article…hmmm just to pen-up my views on my recent online survey. Lately I was
going through some blog post and articles about how Indian women judge others. And
these women should stop doing so and should utilize the spare time by cooking,
shopping, exercising or pampering themselves in a beauty salon.
Firstly, its not just ‘Indian’
women every other human species tend to pass judgement about others. I
personally feel that this is a human tendency to do so and there is nothing
wrong in it. Un-less and until it becomes ugly. If people say stop judging,
then why these people taking part in reality contest, there also they are being
judged. However, no body has a right to pass a judgement on others personal or
professional decisions. Every individual is different and has a right to make
is own decisions.
Modern and Techno people of today
seem to make a very good effort of not to judge others however, they fail to do
so. This happens when people fail to love themselves and they end-up judging
others to make them feel better. People need to understand every individual is
different. In this big world you might like a group of people with whom you
like to chill, party and relax. And with rest you might not have same equation,
it’s ok to do so but that does not mean those people are bad and you start
judging them.
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| we all do it ! |
In olden days some people with their friends use to talk
negative about others during their spare times. But today so called modern
people who have become very sophisticated they do not talk (gossip) about
others they write articles and blogs. People still talk or judge others but in
a techno way. People show their talent by writing about others or making
comments online. Other special trait of these kind of people is that they are
very good in giving ‘So called Advice’ in Hindi we say ‘Gyan’ people who have
nothing to do does this really well. Some people in there articles and blog
posts say only Indian women judge other Indian women, and these women should be
controlled by their father or husband. It’s too funny to read such articles why
people think women should be controlled or it’s only ‘Indian women’ wrong. You
stay in India
or abroad your nature to judge others would not change.
But I feel I am no one to judge or give Gyan to
anyone. I would sum-up my article by saying: ‘Times have changed but old habits
of people have not yet changed, it just become more civilized and
technologically correct’. If you enjoyed reading my article, please consider sharing it. Thank you.
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